Canada Trip - How To Deal With Angry People.

Someone who gets angry easily, or associating with, it is being close friends with. You still might not see you are ensnared, when you are in the middle of it, but there is a snare that the enemy uses that. Or lying and stealing, we might think of gambling. Or drugs; and excessive drinking, alcohol, " might be the big ones that are right in front of us like; "snares, our first thoughts when we hear the word. There are so many snares the enemy will use to entrap us and put us in bondage.

I never allow them to be a close friend of mine, but to those that have a continuing cycle of anger and remorse, i have found the best thing I can do is to be courteous and love all people, but through much experience dealing with people who have anger in them. But ignore their weakness of their anger, not ignore them completely. I tend to lean on the mercy and grace side with people and ignore others in this category.

But embracing and associating with those that have a constant temper and a critical spirit all the time, i am not talking about showing love. " I can understand why you would say that as the Bible does tell us to "love our enemies" (Matthew 5:23). Kris, "Isn't that rather harsh, you may say?

The Bible is very clear on what we should do with angry people.

" Lest you learn his ways and get yourself into a snare, and with a wrathful man do not associate, proverbs 22:4 - 25 (Amplified Bible)
"Make no friendships with a man given to anger.

The enemy is crafty and will use your need to help someone to get you to fall. We will start walking down a road that God never wanted us to walk down in the first place. We will believe a lie, if we do this. And end up understanding their temper and even agreeing with the angry person, we will fall into the snare of trying to help the angry person, if we don't protect ourselves from the snares of the enemy and really guard against them, " But. Isn't that a little extreme, "Wow, i thought, when I recently was reminded of this passage of scripture?

But hold back on being their friend; your job is to show love, god will take care of that person. Or tend no one that is always angry, associate with, eat with, to tend a friendship, " We are to keep no company with. And shepherd, + shearing house, pastor, keep [sheep] (-er), herdman, make friendship with, use as a friend, feed, keep company with, by extension to associate with (as a friend): companion, generally to rule; intransitively to graze (literally or figuratively); pasture it; that is, to tend a flock, a primitive root; " in the above passage this way: "raw-aw', "friendship, the Strongs Hebrew and Greek dictionary gives a definition of the word.

It is a command in Proverbs to make no friendship with them, really. But still love them and wish the best for them, it is okay to pull away from them as a friend. Not to mention your peace, they will drain your patience. They will drain your joy. Angry people are draining. Yet are always associating with, but this article is really for those who have someone in their life who they don't live with. Or friends you can ask for help, there are many "safe" houses to go to. This is an indicator that you should do something about it, or your children's safety, if you are always afraid of your safety. The main thing is to be safe, if you are married to someone who is constantly angry. Maybe you have someone in your life that falls into this category of being a person of anger.

I do not befriend them, but in the meantime, i am waiting for the right time to calmly share with them the hope of freedom from this torment. They are doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results and it will never happen. My prayer is that they will see their actions and their way of thinking is getting them no where. They will continue to go through this cycle, until they are delivered and set free from this bondage in their life. But they do not see it, this person needs deliverance. As of lately their anger and actions have been the worse I've ever seen in them. And then getting angry again, then putting a fake smile on, of remorse (not repentance), i've watched this person's anger rise and fall through many cycles. Or make a point, they always find something to complain about and even get down right evil and rude with their actions in order to state their case. They are never satisfied with people. Who is always angry, as their leader, i know of someone in my life.

He knows your name. He formed you. Be comforted that you will be in the arms of a loving God who knows all about you, so. He will never leave you ever. The Lord will never leave you during this process. Are you willing to press in to your pain to find out more about yourself? It might be painful. But well worth the change that will come, this is a process. And to change your way of thinking, ask God to heal you, when you receive your answer. Be open to what that still small voice speaks to your heart, once you have asked God to show you the core of your anger. Yourself, and even more challenging, this is a hard place to be because you have to be honest with God. Ask God what is the root of it, if you have an anger problem. Usually there is a root cause for the anger. Do you expect people to cater to you? Do you easily get upset when things don't go your way? Do you have an anger problem? Let us be people that are easy to get along with.

Here are a few more scriptures about getting angry:

" For anger and vexation lodge in the bosom of fools, ecclesiastes 7:9 (Amplified Bible)
"Do not be quick in spirit to be angry or vexed.

" For man's anger does not promote the righteousness God [wishes and requires]. Slow to take offense and to get angry, slow to speak, let every man be quick to hear [a ready listener]. My beloved brethren, james 1:19 and 29 (Amplified Bible)
"Understand [this].

" As God in Christ forgave you, forgiving one another [readily and freely], loving-hearted), understanding, tenderhearted (compassionate, and become useful and helpful and kind to one another. Or baseness of any kind), ill will, with all malice (spite, abusive or blasphemous language) be banished from you, contention) and slander (evil-speaking, clamor, animosity) and quarreling (brawling, bad temper) and resentment (anger, rage, ephesians 4:31 and 32 (Amplified Bible)
"Let all bitterness and indignation and wrath (passion.

The very thing you hold on to will become a part of you before you know it. Allow God to show you any anger you might be holding onto. I am sure if you did a study on the word you would find out more then you could ever imagine. These are just a few verses concerning anger.

blessings,

Kris Belfils

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